How might a comprehensive review of the situation be viewed by the family?

Either a learning opportunity for others, or adding insult to injury. It may be very difficult for the family to hear an expert say, "they did this, this and this wrong."

They have a lot to deal with.

While an analysis may be helpful for folks like us, but it may be emotionally harmful for the family.

I know that the ETS members suggesting this are not insensitive to the family's pain and don't mean to imply such.

From my own loss of family members (health reasons, not survival situation), I kept questioning, "what about this" or "what if they had done that?". In the end I concluded that it doesn't really matter the reasons...the result is still the same...the person is still gone.

Just another perspective.

BB James Kim.