I guess my relationship is different than a lot. We don't really have a leader. We do everything together so we learn from each other. He taught me how to take a car apart and put it back together, I taught him how to cookand do laundry. We really are a great team. We don't have a womans job nor a mans job at home. We just consider it a job that needs to be done and we usually do it together because it's more fun and it makes the job go faster. I don't have a lot of patience with people that can't see past their own wants. The " ME ME ME" attitude makes for stressful situations. I have convinced my goddaughter to go camping with me this weekend for a few days and she doesn't know it yet but her make-up isn't coming with us. You all may be able to hear her scream when she realizes it.