I have family in St Louis and when we talked to them they were debating going to a safe place. I didn't see where the guy was so wrong in offering his GF options. I read it 3 times and I guess I missed the part where he was being so inconsiderate. She was clearly upset, he was just showing her it wasn't the end of the world. In an emergency , the first thing you need to do is take stock of what you have and come up with a plan. If they needed to go to a safe place, why wasn't his offer acceptable?