I have to disagree with you on this one. In an emergency I don't have time to put anyone on a pedestal. If you aren't prepared for a situation you have no right to complain because someone else is prepared. He offered to help her. If you cant help a situation then you shouldn't hinder it by whining. If you look at power outs as an adventure instead of like it's the end of the world then it makes it a lot easier. Attitude is really important to survival not just to every day life.