If you are going to use a portable generator to power part of your house, the recommended and safest method is to install a "Transfer Switch". With it, there is no danger of feeding back into the power system. As I recall, they sell for about $100. I see them for sale frequently on eBay. Do a search on eBay for "GENERATORS". The transfer switches are usually mixed among the listed generators.
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