Wow, oh wow. let's figure this out together. I have a very similar situation, both parents have had strokes, live in the woods, can't drive anymore, refuse to move anywhere and have increasingly challenging cognitive issues. I've tried EVERYTHING I CAN THINK OF and the only thing that seems to work is driving down here (6 hours each way) and doing everything for them, and even then, I don't think it's working at all.

Really could use some ideas.