Sounds like you're living through a challenging time. Hang in there.

In addition to the advice above, I would add: get to know your neighbours. Make a point of becoming, in a respectful way, a known quantity, a person who can be trusted, and a genuine asset.

At a certain distance from town, in farm and ranch country, community becomes a tangible thing. These people have deep skills and capabilities, and while take quiet pride in their self-sufficiency, they are quick to help each other when someone faces a situation they can't handle on their own.

It will take some quiet effort on your part; these people are not social butterflies. The secret is to demonstrate quiet competence and common sense in some things, and to ask their advice as you get a feel for their areas of expertise.

Words written here are cheap, and all of this is easier said than done. But good neighbours beat 9-1-1 by a country mile. And it adds a powerful layer of resilience to your situation.

My 2c.