Some peoples only defense plan is to make mocking and dismissive comments against those who might actually have a plan and training, and then go running around screaming if something happens. My priority is my family. If I can help a runner/screamer/mocker/dismisser while saving my family, I will do so. But my goal is not to play hero with my little pistol that I'm not sure about and save those people. If I do, it will only be incidental.