For my wife and kids, I do whatever it takes to give them the edge. Training, education, equipment, supplies, money, whatever they need.

For the rest of them, nothing. They have no interest in having a relationship with us. They are free to live their lives as they choose, and I wish them well. They can do what they like, as long as they leave us out of it.
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The ultimate result of shielding men from the effects of folly is to fill the world with fools.
-- Herbert Spencer, English Philosopher (1820-1903)