Not to be cold, but the boyfriend made the decision not to wear that seatbelt. Decisions have consequences.

That's part of the whole "equipped to survive" thought process ... from planning and preparation, to day-to-day behavior.

I've spent their entire lifetimes teaching my children that cars (trucks) simply don't move without seatbelts fastened. They even fasten them while driving on our own property (we have a larger property). I hope and pray that they make the right decisions when I'm not around.