We use the same cot in a lot of our camps; while I have no idea if the fabric has shrunk, I've always had a heck of a time getting that second crossbar in place. That's held true for different cots, different climates, and different years (thus introducing the passage of time).
I usually run out of patience before I get results and end up walking away for awhile (up to and including a couple days). To date the solution has always been:
Just force that mother! Best of luck.
EDIT: Oh, and also what Barbakane said.
Edited by yelp (09/04/09 10:23 PM)
Edit Reason: re-read previous posts
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(posting this as someone that has unintentionally done a bunch of stupid stuff in the past and will again...)