What would the opposite of actively searching for a replacement wife be exactly?
Sorry, I meant a case where the terminally ill husband found a new man for his wife.
I read his blog every day and saw his wife's original post. Personally, I felt that if posting it made her feel better then it was a good thing to do. James's comments on it indicated he thought it was a bit squirrelly and he was just humoring his wife.
-Blast