I work hard and think ahead make plans and preperations to feed my wife and I,I have talked to friends and family till I lose my voice and it does no good, I feel I did my part. They have health insurance maybe a little bit better house or a newer car,more money in their savings account than I do, when I'm behind on a bill, or I need my truck fixed or repairs on the house I don't see them offering to help me. I guess the one and only exception I would make is if either of the two groups (family/friends) were willing and able to offer help in the form of hunting, fishing or growing a garden, to me that would justify taking care of them, as long as it didn't put my wife or I in a bad position and shorten our chances for surviving.