IM SORRY to here about your troubles.i look at it this way .i just bought 30 acers,built a new house.in det more than ever .BUT i didnt want to get old an say wished i would have.now i can say i did , if i loose it than i tried my best an it wasnt ment to be.to behonest i think me an wife n kids were happer in a older double wide that was paid for .we didnt have anything but each other .youll see all this crap we work for doesnt mean near as much as just plain ol happiness.i dont pray like i should but it does work .try it he can liten the load . hang in ther man