Unfortunately, in this country atleast, the tendency seems to be for women to treat men as animals who need to be trained. While men treat women as volcano goddess who must be placated but generally ignored. I'd say whatever works for people, but based on what I see on TV, I really doubt it works for anyone.
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A gentleman should always be able to break his fast in the manner of a gentleman where so ever he may find himself.--Good Omens