You explain what you can, but it’s up to the other person to decide what safeguards they want in their life. If they choose not to act or do what is needed at any given time, it’s their problem, not yours. No one can be made to do anything they don’t want to do.

If you are talking about your wife you have an interesting debate on your hands. Plan for the both of you and if it hits the fan, hopefully she will come into the light.





Sometimes the gene- pool needs a little chlorine.