Originally Posted By: MDinana
"Don't you dare solve the problem! I just want you to feel bad for me!"...I refuse to change for their twisted need to feel downtrodden


Women are (generally) wired to seek relationship & understanding. Men are (generally) wired to seek solutions & resources. This is a fundamental truth of human beings and puts the lie to the mistaken modern notion that it is (generally) healthy to reverse sex roles.

You can fight it and suffer, or understand it and benefit.