Keep it simple and fun right now. Young kids have the attention span of a gnat, but they also retain a lot that can pop up later (like, when it's needed).

Backyard camping is great for young ones. Home is close, so it isn't too scary. A lot of the things you want to teach can be turned into games, and remembering those games can really make a difference.

You can start playing the What If...? game. What to do if the neighbor boy is playing with matches and setting grass on fire? What to do if the neighbor's aggressive dog is running loose? What if he sees smoke coming from an electrical outlet?

First, ask what he would do if such a thing was happening. (His answers can also be a clue for a possible day when it happens, he disappears... what he tells you could help you find him.) If he gives a good answer, be sure and tell him that was a great idea. If there are better ways, go over them and see what he thinks of them, ask how he might improve on them.

There are a thousand What If games you can play.

The Hug a Tree is so important, and most parents don't seem to realize it. Two years from now, he could be with a friend's family, and they both get lost together. Talk about shelter and burrowing into dry leaves, etc.

Avoid the "I'm going to protect my child from everything" mindset. TEACH him how to use matches, TEACH him how to safely handle a knife. TEACH him not to try to catch or pet wild animals.

In other words, teach him how to think for himself.

Is there any chance you're homeschooling?

Sue