My thanks to all for y'all's advice!!!!!
My Mom & step-Dad have recently been diagnosed with Dementia and many legal possibilities are now closed.
It is not too late for us sane ones to dampen down some of the other's.
I will be applying y'all's good advice to my own family situation.
Thanks again!!!!
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QMC, USCG (Ret)
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