You might also want to check out some of the medical supply stores for ideas. They likely have all sorts of devices designed to help people confined to a bed or wheelchair to answer nature's call - male or female. The only difficulty might be finding one that's got a secure top to close it up - most of them are likely designed to be emptied right away.
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"The mind is not a vessel to be filled but a fire to be kindled."
-Plutarch