My setup is a little different and won't add anything to your knowlege or experience. However, should you find yourself overseas with no camping stores , here is what I use.
My setup is for PERSONAL car camping, not for hiking, and not for family. It is made of mainly small size house utensils (kettle, frying pan and steel cup) bought from general stores
Cooking is done by a home made Esbit stove (experiemented with a few metal cans & an electric outlet housing). They all worked fine. Esbit cubes are best here 'cause liquid and gaseous fuels cannot be stored safely in car trunk in the summer heat !!!
Utensils and 'stove' are not lightweight. So, they stay in the car. So, as our friend said :
cook and eat out of the cookware. Simple is better
This is my strtegy for cutting weight
I have used them a few times when I took persoanl vacations (alone)decided in a hurry. They are OK.
Here is a pic of the electric box I use for esbit
Just open a few side holes and add a couple of metal wire on the top and you are in business