It's really sad that people have to make fun of someone because of a personal tragedy. I'm sure he didn't do it for the attention. Reading the posts just makes me laugh. Maybe it's just because they are all so ridiculous! He is so cute and probably is getting a lot of women. So? I'll take him
Aron Ralston's Survivor Traits
First Appeared May 9, 2003, Page One, The Oregonian
Survivors of tragedy who emerge stronger share a number of traits:
Aron Ralston is the 27 year-old, Colorado rock climber receiving national attention for the courage he showed when he saved his life by amputating his right arm to escape from under a bolder that fell on him. The front page story about Aron Ralston in The Oregonian, May 9, 2003, was accompanied by this interview with Dr. Al Siebert about traits of survivors:
Reason
Survivors focus on problem-solving their situation. They control their emotions. They set aside panic and think logically during a crisis, especially about the true nature of the crisis and realistic options for solving it.
Focus
Survivors are 100 percent present in the moment. Thinking too much about past experiences or future possibilities distracts from survival. Survivors can say, "I have to do this or I will die."
Humor
Survivors are usually more amused than angry about their predicament. Aron says: "I tried to chip away at the rock using a multitool knife. You know, the kind you get with a $15 flashlight and it's free, which is probably how I got it."
Integration
Survivors must be emotionally healthy enough to integrate their tragedy and its consequences into being one part their larger life story. People who focus solely on a past tragedy and make it the central part of their identity are still being governed by the crisis.
Positivity
After a tragedy you will never be the same again. Making lemonade from lemons is crucial after a crisis. The key challenge is, how can you make something positive of this? How can you come out of this a better person?
for the complete story:
http://www.resiliencycenter.com/stories/2003stories/0305ralston.html