Ok everytime we are outdoors I bring my regular items. I have my large Sog gov't, Sebenza, Wave, headlamp, etc, etc... My girlfiend and friends always borrow my equipment for camp chores and little jobs. Yes I get my equipment back so that's not the issue but the condition of the equipment has a lot to be desired. I'm not what you would call a neatness freak. But if you get back your Sebenza all dipped in the peanut butter that it won't even close, or Wave working better than ever due to bacon and butter grease, or my lighter empty since it's easier to light the fire with jet set to the max it becomes a little concern to me. I can get pissed at my friends and tell them to get their own or not lend them any stuff. But a love one? Am I being to uptight or am I right? Any opinions? For years I've been know as the guy who is always prepared. If my swiming trunks had belt loops I would probably swim with my leatherman. I don't won't to turn around and say: "no you can't use my leatherman to open the can". I'm always there to give a helping hand. I strongly believe that by doing good deeds I compensate for all the bad stuff I do as well, so I'm not going to pass you when you need help. I understand that not everyone can afford gear or is not interested in survival/cmamping. I'm just trying not to come off as snotty selfish New Yorker. Please help...<br><br>Matt