Thanks Matt


Originally Posted By: benjammin
Things like behavior management and social skills training ought to be part of the parenting package. These were things I always thought were my responsibility when raising my own children.


I agree with you Benjamin and that is whaty I am doing right now. I havent gone to any doctor and the only thing additional to what I do now is the diet thing that will not hurt anyway.

Later if I see myself on the right track, I am going to read more into the subject so that I can keep an "expert" eye on his development. I can only coach him while he is young enough. When he gets older it is the right thing to leave him to tackle his own problems by himself while I provide advice when he asks for it.

I have all the patience in the world and would stick by his side . The only thing that worries me now - being addicted to this survival thing - that if a catastrophe happens and we need everyone to shift into survival mode, I really wonder how he will behave. Will he - for example - realize early enough that circumtances are not normal and that he has to act quick in a way or another. Or, will he beahve the same way , lost somewhere , not realizing the dangers until it is too late. It comforts me that his younger brother is with him in the same school (and that younger one is a mini-McGyver). But I still worry about him if he was alone in SHTF situation.