Chisel,

I don't think it makes your problem harder. I don't see as you need to expend effort differentiating amongst your kid's needs. Whether it is part of one sort of behavior or another, it all boils down to you asserting more control over your son's life and activity in a positive but firm manner and responding to his actions.

Looking at the Treatment list you cite from the Mayo Clinic, it looks a lot to me like what I related in previous posts. Is there anything in that list that you feel is really beyond your ability to provide yourself for you child? Again, not being able to evaluate your situation subjectively, it may be that the situation will require some external intervention/assistance more than just you alone. If so, then I would recommend seeking that help as well, just be sure that you've done your part as well. Things like behavior management and social skills training ought to be part of the parenting package. These were things I always thought were my responsibility when raising my own children. Sometimes it required some "tough love", but you do what you gotta do to get results. Learning how to deal with stress was also something I taught my kids. I don't see as it is much different in the case of AS, except maybe requires just more effort and interactive time.

Keep in mind that diagnosis and treatment by a professional may put a permanent mark against your child as well, which is why I advocate trying it on your own first. It will be hard work, kids always are, but that is part of the deal.

However you decide to deal with it, you will have my support so long as you are putting your kid's success first.