if Doug's advice keeps just 1 person from becoming the subject of thread on this site it was worth it.
And if the same advice gets two people in trouble its not worth it.
I guess it is really a matter of two different philosophies. Abstinence vs. Safe Sex. One encourages responsible behavior, knowing that not everyone will follow it, and the other just tries to minimize the negative consequences of irresponsible behavior thus tacitly encouraging it.
And never the twain shall meet.