You got it lit, that's what counts. Now you know a lot more than you did three days ago. Look at worked and what didn't. Ask yourself why the stuff that didn't work didn't- odds are, the tinder was too damp.

So you've got more tabs I assume? Put them in your kit to replace what you used, and a little Bic. Practice, practice, practice. When you can get the fire going in the fireplace, move outside- you might even find it easier. If you have the space, one of those yert warmer/portable firepit things is great for practicing, but a metal garbage can lid will work just as well.