Unfortunately I don't think they sell the Nissan Patrol in the USA. Just like the LR Defender, it is not "plush" enough for the US market. The powers-that-be think that all we want in the USA is leather/wood trimmed luxury, high-ride station wagons. There are a few more choices today from what I had in 2004, like now there is the Hummer 3 and the Jeep Wrangler Unlimited 4-door. Most every other SUV available here is not much for off road use. Too low to the ground.
I am seriously considering a Jeep Unlimited 4-door soon, although the test vehicle used by Edmonds.com got only 14.5 mpg in combined driving:( They also say it is way under powered for it's weight. Then again, I am not looking for a rocket, just a good all around outdoor vehicle. Not sure I can live with 15 mpg if the gas prices go back up again, ya know they will!!
Meanwhile, I have an '04 Chevy Trailblazer that is a great highway wagon, gets 21 mpg and has 4wd for winter use. Not too good off road. I also have a '98 Isuzu Trooper for tearing around on the back roads, it does alright, it is paid for and it is semi-expendable. Lots of room inside. Mechanically it is a nightmare and expensive to repair. Engine is way too complicated and all aluminum to boot.
Sure hope you can find a SUV that suits your needs and is a good, reliable ride. Cheers!