I started my wifes BOB and all of a sudden it became a family project that we both enjoyed putting together. Then we went on a "camping trip" and was able to practice using all the equipment. Not only was it fun but it also made us re-think a few things. My wife carries a lot of redundancies to my bag, but she also carries a few things that I dont have in mine. Her's is about 37 lbs. and we go for walks with them on. Not only is it great exersize but we - again get to spend some quality time together and she is now "equipped to survive".