Homewreckers are despicable -- male and female alike. I have seen way too many children grow up without a father or mother around because of them. Sure, the adulterer among the married couple is guilty and can start the affair, yadda, yadda, yadda.....but the homewrecker is a key ingredient that has to be there. Preachers, deacons, you name it: homewreckers come in all shapes and sizes.