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the screening at LHR was exactly the same as if I'd been flying to the US.

Does not sound like the same screening in the US. No way would the lighters in the tray be allowed on a US flight.
It sounds like airports in other countries are not screening as tightly for US bound flights as airports in the US.
I fly a lot for business and I see people getting caught with lighters and such all the time. In fact the last airport checkpoint I went through had a row if confiscated lighters sitting on top of the x-ray machine.

The upside is you can go out of the terminal where smoking is allowed and just pick up a free lighter that a departing passenger tossed. Leave one going in and get one coming out.