>> 3. An Eagle Inudstries AIII or similar quality Three-Day pack in Yellow. PALS webbing and reflective trim a must.
if you can source the fabric, you may want to see if you like the kifaru marauder
http://www.kifaru.net/MGmaraud.htm . Kifaru can make the pack if you can get them the fabric.
>> 8. Lightweight, good self heating meals
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self heating generally means the food doesn't need water to be cooked and food that doesn't need water is heavy.
right now the MRE is as good as it gets for this. field strip the MRE and it helps quite a bit with the weight.
if you don't mind rolling your own, you can try something like back packers pantry freeze dried meals with an MRE heater, but they need water and aren't something you can cook on the run like an MRE.
>> 9. Quality, lightweight, non-cotton (military quiality nyco would be nice) BDU style pants in tan.
5.11 makes a tactical pant in khaki or desert sand in rip stop nylon. I'd bet others do as well. these colors in a tactical pant have become popular with subs in iraq.