OK, same thing like I said in the other post. Generalization the topic for survivors in general ( me included).

Lets say that you have a wife or teen boy or girl. You have the guts to move on that rope of jump those four feet not scared by the deeeeeeeeeeep canyon below. What if the other person with you has his/her eyes wide open and says : I cant !!!! Do I PUSH them to jump / crawl / climb ?? Or do I realize it isnt safe and agree to take another route for their safety.

Also, how does the survivor himself/herself judge for him/her self if he should try to jump/climb based on the newly acquired power fed by fear, or withdraw/change course based on knowing oneself and not trusting weak knees.