Stevez:

It would probably be viewed and reported by her as a backhanded threat if you are talking about sending her a knife which you know she does not like.

Sad to say, in todays political atmosphere she would probably find a sympathetic company, boss, and prosecutor, and you would end up poorer, labeled as a dangerous sociapath, and unemployed.

Forget phsychology and go for any legal juglar you have a right to pursue within reasonable costs.

Bountyhunter