The material is critical! I have used Sotal, which is a desert plant with a tall stalk. The stalk is perfect for both pieces of a bowdrill or a fire plough. Technique has to be developed and persistance pays! Softer woods work well or a combination of soft and hard. Definately not hardwood to hardwood. Keep trying, it is fun when you get your first ember !!
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No, I am not Bear Grylls, but I stayed at a Holiday Inn Express last night and Bear was there too!