Christina:

There is an old saying that, "No one can insult you without your permission". That sort of response also applies to being bothered by people who do not have improper or illegal contact with you.

Whatever your dislike for this person, you can not stop certain forms of behavior toward you if they are not improper or illegal. Just because she visits your website does not qualify her as a "stalker" or someone "out to get you".

If this person appears at the same functions as you either before or after you get there and she does not directly interact with you, you are paranoid at best and pompus at worst. If she appears at the same restuarants, at the same times as you but does not insist on sitting next to you, or talking to you, or making any silent motions toward you that are threatening or illegal, you have no choice but to choose another place to eat. If she then follows you there with the same behavior, you again have to find someplace else. This can go on ad infinitem and the only one that can be blamed for harrassing you is yourself.

If she does or threatens to do anything illegal, report it to the authorities and follow thru with prosecution if warranted, if not, develop a thicker skin or seek professional help to deal with your preceptions.

I'm sorry for the lack of "tsk tsk" sympathy on my part, but I believe this is the best way to resolve your problem based on what little detailed information you have given us.

Good luck!

Bountyhunter