I think at the Cub Scout level, your pack is doing great to get the family camping concept started, however you do it. Some of the boys will be ready to go to the next level, some won't. It's great to have families together outdoors, and if you can help facilitate that through the Pack, you should feel great about it.
When they get to Boy Scouts, you can start to further cultivate the ability to be self sufficient. For one thing, a lot fewer parents volunteer to camp out when they have to carry their gear in on their back, and don't have the comforts of home, so you'll mostly be dealing with the boys, some experienced parents, and the Scout leaders, who hopefully have some experience and training. Slowly moving the boys from the "back of the SUV" camping, to a week or two with just what you carry on your back or in your canoe is more like art than science. We all had to take small steps to get there.
There have been some great thoughts in this thread on managing the balance between coaching the boys how to handle themselves, in new situations, while keeping it safe enough that they come back ok. When I started asking about what equipment people bring along as leaders, it seemed to bring out a number of other interesting tangents. I particularly heard the message of letting the boys sort through their problems, using whatever THEY had brought along, as much as possible. After all, learning to improvise is something that is often best taught by working through a real situation.
I just read a couple of the pointers people added referencing examples of "lost day hikers". They reinforce the importance of the work we do as leaders of young folks trying to learn how to take care of themselves. I know that this forum has been very helpful for me to provide contrasting ideas and methods for coaching these young men. Thanks for your advice. The examples really drive home how easy it is for folks to get themselves into trouble. The story about the mother and daughter who's bones were found a couple miles from the trailhead was the most recent one I scanned. Very sad. I'm collecting the examples to prepare a talk for our Troop, particularly for the parents who are questioning the need for survival training, and high adventure experiences.
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- Ron