I like those Trianga mess tins too, the ones with the lids. For me they are a bit too big to really be considered "personal". They can go in a rucksack OK, but you can get separated from your rucksack. To be honest, they are too big for me to bring along without a definite intention of using it, so I think of it more as a hiking kit than a survival one. I have found a small tin which was originally a presentation box for a minature bottle of Baileys, which holds about 250ml. I think that's the smallest amount which is worth heating. It is not too big to carry even when I'm not going to have a disaster, but it is still too big for a pocket. (The "You Can Survive" commercial kit, reviewed
here, comes in a nice-sized tin too, but it's an awkward shape to carry and the rest of the kit is poor. But it's the kit which first got me into this.)
I'm comming to think there is no good solution. Anything large enough to contain and heat a decent amount of water will be bigger than what I'm willing to carry on my person.