About the diaper problem...
You can use the OLD methods...
http://libaware.economads.com/ec.php
http://www.goddessunplugged.com/articles/diapers.htm
While I do not always agree with some of the 'politics' or the 'goddess' thing...Some of these methods obvously have worked for thousands of years, and may be the solution to your problems...Though it may be too late for this baby.