I thought the original question that started this thread was "How far would you go?" Further clarified in that first post with "Is there something that you will not do?"
That's asking for the extreme. Not for whether we'd choose matches or a lighter. What different direction were you expecting this thread to take given that initial question
To answer that question, I have to take it in private.
Jeanette Isabelle
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I'm not sure whose twisted idea it was to put hundreds of adolescents in underfunded schools run by people whose dreams were crushed years ago, but I admire the sadism. -- Wednesday Adams, Wednesday