Hello, Colin -<br><br>I'm a former 737 pilot with a major US carrier and am now flying B777's across the pond to Europe.<br><br>At the risk of offending you, I have to say that where you sit is immaterial when you've just said that you're going to have a lap child. Know what we call laps? Footballs.........<br><br>There is NO WAY you can restrain your kid if the plane hits some nasty turbulence. <br><br>If you think you can belt in your child on your lap, fuhgeddaboutit. The child will cushion YOUR impact against the restraint but that will do grave bodily damage to him/her at very little G. Carry a child seat for him. If the plane is full, then you can gate-check the babyseat. <br><br>Don't worry about a *true* impact because the force will be, oh, about 60 G's and it's a theoretical discussion at that point.<br><br> I understand the economics of the issue (ticket prices and such), but at least call the airline and see how the loads are for that flight. You may get lucky and have access to an empty seat. Perhaps you can change your ticket to a flight with fewer people on it and better your chances for an empty seat.<br><br>You stand a far greater chance of running into turbulence than you do of being in a crash.<br><br>OK, now that I'm off my soapbox - if your kids are relatively older (more than 5 or so), go for a forward seat in front of the wings so that they can see what's below, if it's clear.<br><br>The tail section will experience much more wiggle-waggle if there's any turbulence, so that's another reason to head up front.<br><br>US carriers are prohibited from putting people with kids in exit row seats. I don't know about other carriers.<br><br>Hope I didn't cause an international incident. ;-]]<br><br>Nancy