I ran across this:    
Live Fire Gear  and I got one.  I have not had time to test it yet, but it advertises that it is a reusable tinder that lasts for hours.  It has a lid that you can close to put it out.  I got the sport version (smaller) and it is a very small form factor: 
Length:   1.89"
Width:     .91"
Height:    .35"
Weight:   .5 oz
The next one is the Pocket Bellows.  It is a telescoping metal tube for directing air into a fire with more accuracy, force, concentration, and at a safer distance.  Their page:    
Pocket bellows I have tested this and it does help in delivering air to the right place in a fire more efficiently and effectively.  I have tried their tinders, and still prefer cotton balls with petroleum jelly, but they do work.  Their ferrocerium rod with a magnesium-core flint striking tool does give decent sparks and packs small.
These are items that are small enough to include in a pocket survival kit.  I post them to provide information to the forum, and have no connection at all with either company.