I don't think you drag your knuckles as much as you make it out to be.
If a knuckle-dragger is his identity, that is his prerogative.
In Proverbs 29:18 is says: “Where there is no vision, the people perish. . . .”
The same can be said for identity: “Where there is no [identity], the people perish. . . .” Without an identity, we’re living on autopilot.
Jeanette Isabelle