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Also, I am still looking for a way to spend one day ALONE. 
Seems harder than I thought.
 
That is so true.  Just disappearing causes too many problems; though it is easy to do.
A bunch of years back we took a vacation to Panama City Beach, FL.  It consisted of me, DW, DS, and one of DS's friends.  I told DW that all I wanted to do was: eat scrambled eggs, sausage, English muffins with orange marmalade, and tea every morning.  That is all I wanted to do.  No running around, no beach stuff.  We were lucky in that there was beach reclamation going on.  I watched it for hours on end from the balcony.  But, I still had to do some things, but not a lot.  I got lucky.  I hope you are able to get some decompression time.