I have a Fenix TK10 sitting on the table next to me. I mostly use it as a spotlight to locate the dog out back ... but when outdoors I much prefer my Princeton Tec EOS headlamp - great light for the size and gives me use of both hands.

I prefer a nylon poncho - MUCH lighter in weight. Campmor.com sells a decent one for the money. In cool weather the addition of some closed cell foam can be a lifesaver. Even a small piece on the seat of a nylon camp chair can make a big difference.

Personally I'd skip all the tinder stuff and bring Vaseline soaked cotton balls in a plastic bag. They light with a spark when turned inside out and last a decent amount of time so additional small wood can be added. Plain cotton just burns too fast.