Sure, thanks MoBOB.

When I watched Tour of Duty, I liked Zeke Anderson's character , his relation with his men, and relation with his boss (Lt. Goldman). And I watched him closely in different (relaxed or stressed)situations and just luiked that subtle humour in him. This interest in characters developed from my frustration of some diffcult charcters around me.

Regarding this thread, I wrote the question to show that people are different and what goes in everyone's mind is maybe different from others. So we should always expect others to focus on different angles of any subject, have their own preferences in any situation, and we always have the option to respnd or ignore.

Thank you MoBOB. You choose not to get frustrated with my question. You also chose not to ignore the question, but to generously and patiently answer the question and enlighten me in this area. Many thanks.

And thanks Russ