why do you use the term "bathtub people" ?
All that said, I do think its important for the buck to stop somewhere; one person who will ultimately accept responsibility for the actions and decisions of the group. Because of this added responsibility, this person also needs to be granted the ability to set the bounds of what the group does, with consensus being used to work out the details.
We are consensus in this family 'community',but the buck stops here,I get the final say.As head of household.And putting family first always over my needs.
Its a biblical concept and works for us.Not too PC but you have to have some sort of final decision making.Figure its worked for lots for a long time,so thats what we do.
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