If you are a little different from the average folks in the small town you want to move to, you may find it harder to become a part of any group. No, I am not necessarily saying small towns are "close minded" regarding the usual hot button cultural issues. There are also social groups in place, and they include the membership they include for a reason -- some possibilities may include petty personal disagreements to big political commitments. You will have to be able to fit in, and the wiggle room may be narrower.

Big cities have more groups, and the groups often have to be more tolerant because people regularly come into contact with people who are not like them. The chances are better that you'll eventually find your niche.

I personally recommend against groups. They drive me nuts. There is always someone you can't stand. Instead, I just have friends, and we have a good time.