I'm not sure about Eugene's son's Pack, but when we take our pack camping, we take care of all their food via group meals, except the snacks in their survival kits. They are often asked to bring their own mess kits for meals, and we build in the opportunity to teach them how to wash dishes. (and also lead by example in showing the how to make fewer dishes to clean.) By they time they hit Scouts and we expect them to be fairly independant, they're in pretty good shape if they've come through the ranks.

I think asking them to bring a mess kit is great. Yeah, eventfully it'll probably get tossed to save weight and space, but for now it's a great lesson in responsibility and teamwork.

At 6 years old and just starting in Cubs, this kit is a good solid kit for a one or two overnighter. Of course, I'm sure there are sleeping bags, outerwear, etc... taken along for the weekend too.

p.s. If I'm wrong on that assumption, and you do let them do the survivorman thing, my 9 year old would like to join your Pack,Eugene!