No matter how much I prep, the storage, BOBs, GHBs, emergency caches, buying a BOV; I cant wrap my head around the loved ones I cant include or protect!

I got Scott William's book BUG OUT and he suggest for my region to bug out to the NH White Mtns. OK Ive never been there but it sounds like a really remote area aprox 90min away from my house. I could eaisily get us "lost" and set up camp.

How bad does it have to be if I grab my immediate family but have to leave my elderly 80'S parents, sons and my brother behind? What are we (the responsible prepared folks) to do??! I dont have the constitution to bug out and leave so many behind

Just thinking out loud, have any of you had the same thoughts?